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In every class and belt test, we try to give our students the opportunity to experience small successes. When they successfully perform a new kick, count loudly in Korean, or complete a form for the first time, we sincerely encourage them. These small achievements plant the seeds of confidence. 


However, in Taekwondo training, success is not the only important thing. Sometimes small failures are also an essential part of a child’s growth. During this week’s belt test, one student attempted board breaking but was unable to break the board. In that moment, the student felt embarrassed and emotional. The top of the foot also seemed to hurt, and the student began to cry and could not finish the test at that moment.


Watching this was difficult, but at the same time I realized that this was a very important moment in the child’s growth. We cannot allow children to experience only success. And honestly, we should not try to. Life does not always go the way we want. 


Sometimes students do not get the score they hoped for on a test. 

Sometimes friendships become difficult.

Sometimes we work very hard and still do not get the result we expected.


What children need is not only success, but the strength to face failure.


Taekwondo training is not just about kicks and forms.

It is about building a strong mind. Experiencing a small failure, trying again, and slowly overcoming the challenge. These experiences become a kind of vaccine for the heart. A vaccine is not meant to harm the body. It prepares the body to overcome bigger illnesses. In the same way, small failures build mental resilience in children.


Later in life, when they face bigger challenges, they will not collapse easily. Today, we sometimes try to give children success too quickly. We try to protect them from embarrassment, failure, or disappointment.


But children grow through failure.

A child who has fallen learns how to stand up again.

A child who has failed learns how to try again.

A child who has cried learns how to smile again.


After the belt test ended, the student who had cried earlier came back, gathered courage, and finished the board breaking. Seeing the student return and face the challenge again made me very proud.


We do not want our students to become people who only succeed. We want them to become people who stand up again after they fall. That is one of the most important lessons Taekwondo can teach. At our dojang, training is a journey of building confidence through small successes and strengthening the mind through small failures.


Through this process, our students slowly grow into stronger individuals. I hope our students continue to challenge themselves, face difficulties with courage, and grow into people who are not afraid of failure.


I will always support them on that journey 🥋


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